Alright, so I'm being super dramatic but thats basically what I'm trying to get at here today, class. I never wanted to tell the truth because usually I would get people making fun of me. Sure I was happy to be jewish when I had to be. I had awesome friends from going to religious school that just completely understood what I was feeling. I had a bat mitzvah (where I got dat cash money) and became a woman so yea, I think my pubescent self was loving the title on that one. Whenever I went to school (it weirdly still happens today) people will make anti-semetic jokes or comments.
I am in no way trying to speak religion on my blog here, but keep on keeping on aka read.
Yesterday, I saw a holocaust survivor speak. I think we all know my appreciation for the study of WW2/Holocaust time period, so when I decided I could take a holocaust class this semester, we all knew I was going to be in there....like swimwear. Oddly enough, the speaker, whom we have to write a paper on for our final in this class, I've had the opportunity to see him speak before. I knew his story already; I read it, I heard it. Yet, still..there I was listening first row (again the only class I would ever care about sitting front row for a speaker for), leaving inspired and happy.
Happy you say, Rach? Um girl it was on the holocaust. You're right. I hate the topic more than anything. Watching survivors tell their stories gives me hope. Knowing the fact that I go to a
Personally, I was confused. Students asked questions about the living conditions while in a camp, about the bodies, the smell, the overall emotions...he laughed about it. The fact that he could just laugh it off as if his life was never almost near death was just amazing. After thinking through half his speech, I realized he had every right to laugh about it. He survived. He's the first hand account that stuff like this did happen. It was real. And he's here to educate the ones who couldn't believe anything (or person) in life could do such a horrid act. In yo face, hitler.
As I was there, nodding my head with what he was saying (even if I knew what he was saying or not), I smiled. I think there's something to be said that when people share similar traits or lifestyles, you just....get them. For me, I can relate to this because in high school when I was in my youth group it was the easiest of times for me to make friends. I found who I was there. I had a solid group of friends, AND they didn't judge me for eating not bread during a week in the spring (which I have to do next monday - jokes on me). When you feel comfortable with your surroundings, you are at the most confident place in your life.
Back to the survivor, I stayed after to get my book signed and get a picture. My professor, who is also jewish, said my name aloud for Fred to hear. He pronounced it in hebrew to reiterate. Then explain how Rachel was the main bad bitch ok not really but the name goes way back. I asked if we could take a picture and he said to me "of course with the pretty girl!". Ok, I could just be overanalyzing because yes I'm a girl but I didn't seem him do that with anyone else. We just connected. I said thanks again and was on my
For all you educators out there I think you always reiterate how importance acceptance of one anthers religion is so important but for me what I don't get is why we go through all this education - learn history, how to treat others, yet we still find ourselves eaves dropping or maybe even being the ones that shoot ignorant jokes about others interests/backgrounds.
What do you think causes for people to poke fun? Unfamiliarity? Ignorance?
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beautiful post girl <3
ReplyDeleteI'm not Jewish, but I can relate to this. For a while in high school we lived in an area where if you weren't a Protestant you were practically a heathen; my Catholic faith put me on par with an atheist. Looking back now I can laugh at the close minded ignorance of it, but at 14 and 15 it was really traumatic to the point where I would sometimes lie about the church my family attended. I wish I had an answer for why people act that way, but I'm just as clueless as you.
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I really like this post, and how well you wrote it. It's important to promote tolerance, and igonorant people really suck. Keep up the awesome writing, girl!
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My sister had the opportunity to interview several Holocaust survivors for one of her college classes and she was constantly inspired by them.
ReplyDeleteLove this, you're amazing! I think what makes people do these racists type jokes can definitely be ignorance, it can be many reasons but I think who you surround yourself with is a huge reason too. I remember in high school I hung out with all the skaters and one of them was nicknamed Jew. I honestly don't remember his name, I'm sure I knew it back then (four years ago *cough*I'm getting old*cough*), but he had the big curly hair and everyone called it a Jew-fro. I'm not even sure he was Jewish, I'm pretty sure he wasn't. And I don't have any idea where I was going with this, maybe it was that we were young and dumb and simply pocking fun at one another.
ReplyDeleteSorry if that offends you/any one in any way. I apologize on behalf of my teenage self and my high school friends!
I love this!! I teach social studies (specifically world history) and the main theme through out my class is religion. We cover many different religions and students always have some "smart" comment to make. The reason I think that people poke fun at these things is how they are raised. As a teacher, I have 70 minutes each day to teach students about the different religions and to teach them how to be respectful of things they disagree with. The only problem I have is that I ONLY get 70 minute and then they go back home to their parents.
ReplyDeleteI learned all of this at parent-teacher conferences this year. One of the parents came up to me and started yelling at me for "brain washing" her child about other religions. She had a few choice words for me. It made me so sad to see that people still feel this way! SO long story short, I think that people poke fun and have a misunderstanding of these things based upon the way they were raised. I hope that people like you and your stories can help change that of the future :)
I love this Rach, although I am not Jewish, I am pentecostal (which has it's own set of preconceived notions about it) and have a deep appreciation for Judaism. You are incredible and I love that you had another experience to hear this speaker first hand. Be you!
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