I know it's another monday and I feel like I honestly have a butt load of things to fill you in on. Like how I can't stop listening to Partition by Queen B. Like the status of where I stand with Mister Kiddycup/Prince Charming. My current location is on the corner of confused and when can we DTR (define the relationship).
Last you've heard of this monster who is of my liking, you knew we had our second date. Well y'all, I'm here to report we had a third one this past friday. And a fourth one tonight.
Friday went down a little something like this: We went to dinner (we couldn't didn't want to wait to get into the cute little italian place because it was crooooowded, so we headed somewhere else). At said 'somewhere else' I ran into my ex's next door neighbor last year. Totes looked like she was on a date from tindy-poo because I knew for a fact she didn't live anywhere around there. So whatever. BUT GUESS WHAT? Prince charming kissed me in public. OOOOOOOOH SHEET NOW YA KNOW IT'S REAL. Well I don't know, but I'm never one for PDA like that but it was kinda funky. Is that what being an adult feels like? So dinner was great, we walked around the town for about two minutes because I saw a christmas tree I wanted to take a picture of, but my iPhone didn't want to let that happen. He obviously understood it was for my blog so he was very accepting of it.
As we were walking back to his car, hands interlocked, it felt like a movie scene. No really, let me explain. I was cold in my cute little pleather jacket and he was like oh hey, I'm not cold, let me give you my coat and gracefully draped it across my shoulders. I think I died justtttttt a little bit. Only a little. The night ended with some movie watching, some cuddles, and a bad case of I-never-want-to-leave syndrome. As usual. Let it be known, he was also the one to initiate the plans, once again. Dangit, where did I find him....!!
Tonights the big number four. When can I ask the whole awkward "hey what are we type thing?". I know I'm trying to jump to fast, but you know my damn generation all we do is rush things because we are impatient as anything and love nothing more than instant gratification (and selfies).
So, do you agree? You think you're really pretty? Are we dating? Please send help. As soon as possible, too please.
So for now, while I wait for your replies as to what I should do...you can find me in bed all day jamming to Yonce. Kthnx.
Oh, and this conversation? Let's keep it between us.
KIDDING AWKWARD BECAUSE IF YOU SEE THIS PRINCE CHARMING.....hi...close your eyes and pretend this never happened. pooof!
That's gonna be an awkward situation! But yes ya'll are dating and yes being official is a step above that. I was always wondered how adults do it and if they just asked the age old "do you want to be my girlfriend?" question. I'd wait until he initiates the talk because I am a big scaredy cat!
ReplyDeletei'll explain it again. going on dates is dating. having the talk and being exclusive is a relationship silly billy :) <3
ReplyDeleteAhhh girl!! Yeah, I'd say you two are dating :) Generally after a few dates with a boy I like to say that I'm seeing someone (it sounds so much more sophisticated than "talking"). This dude sounds so legit though! I usually wait at least a month before any DTR-ing goes down because I have to make sure that (a) I'm not jumping into things and (b) this is someone I want to spend a huge chunk of the foreseeable future with. But GIRL it's looking like you've got yourself a keeper so far....I've got a good feeling.
ReplyDeleteEEEKKK this makes me suppper excited :) I can't wait to hear all about it
ReplyDeleteI'm going to agree with Melissa, but exclusively dating is not always a relationship. At least, not in my world. Because I don't like to share.
ReplyDeleteWhat you're doing is exactly what I consider dating. You're going on dates without being considered "official". I think I would wait about a month from the first date to ask. That's just me, though. Wait, who am I kidding? I shouldn't be giving relationship advice. #singlefurrever
ReplyDeleteI think the fact that he kissed you kind of made it official.
ReplyDeleteYay! I hope date #4 went well! I personally think dating and being official means the same thing, but I would wait to DTR. As much as you think you are exclusive and basically dating, wait until the guy asks you to be official. Just enjoy this time of being giddy every time he texts you and those butterflies you feel on dates with him. (; Oh, and that kiss in public - major bonus points to Mister KiddyCup!
ReplyDeleteI would think you can initiate a DTR on the fifth date. But then again I tend to rush into things too! So maybe on the sixth date? Ha, I don't really know; best advice. Follow your gut!
ReplyDeleteGirl you're dating him. Like hellooooo.
ReplyDeleteGo go go . Make it happen like it's done in super dooper romantic gilms , ya know.
ReplyDeleteGIRL YOU KILL ME EVERY TIME. Hope it goes well (or maybe it doesn't so we can have a good laugh JK JK JK)!!
ReplyDeleteMeredith
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOUUUU! Ugh, and you never texted me after date numero 4 so I need to know what happened! As for prince charming? I think you need to make up a cute story on how you met/then ask where you are <3
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